The spirit of rejection is a demonic spirit. It is an oppressive spirit that makes people live beneath their God-given capacity. The spirit of rejection makes a person feel like an outsider; like they do not fit in. When a person is under the oppression of the spirit of rejection, they feel unwanted, unappreciated, undesired, […]
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The spirit of shame makes you feel like there is something wrong with you. It makes you feel as if you are not good enough. Shame is a deep-seated sense of unworthiness. You feel like you are not valuable and like people do not like you, and that makes you try hard to compensate for
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People-pleasing is a form of bondage. A people-pleaser usually makes decisions based on other people’s opinions. The behavior of a people-pleaser is influenced by their family, friends, and society at large. People-pleasing refers to altering your behavior, words, actions, and attitudes in a way that conforms to societal expectations in an effort to be liked
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A simple mind is a gullible mind. People who are simple-minded are easily deceived, manipulated, and taken advantage of. When we are simple-minded, we tend to believe everything people tell us; this shows that we are not discerning. It is very risky to be simple-minded because not only does one make many mistakes while on
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We were all created by God and for God. God created everything and everyone for a purpose. Our bodies have a purpose, and that purpose is to glorify God. God did not create our bodies for us to use for our own selfish gains. In the world today, people use their bodies for all the
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Rejection stings! Rejection is a deep-seated feeling of being unwanted, it makes us feel like we are not of any value, it makes us question the reason for our existence, it makes us ask ourselves why we do not seem to fit in, it makes us wonder why no one seems to want to be
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You are priceless. Has anyone ever told you that you lost your value? It is common in our society today, and especially in romantic relationships, to hear someone tell the other person that they have lost value in the eyes of the other person. This precedes or may occur after actions and words that are
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Our worth does not come from what we do, it does not come from our past, it does not come from what other people tell us, it does not come from what other people do – our worth is only found and firmly rooted in God. What other people do to us can affect our
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Jesus, our authority. Most people walk through life without knowing their authority. Most people live defeated lives, most people live lives under the deception of the enemy. The enemy is a deceiver, his identity is the father of all lies. If we give the enemy an open doorway into our lives, he will make us
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Embracing our life journey is important. We all walk the same journey of life, yet, our experiences are different. The other person’s journey is not our journey, we are different equals. What happens to the other person may not happen to us, what happens to us may not happen to other people. We make individual
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The desire for acceptance is at the heart of every human being. When there is no acceptance, we deal with rejection. Rejection is a strong emotion, you know, how much rejection can a human being withstand and still remain functional? We all desire to be accepted, we desire to be wanted, we desire to be
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What defines you? Is it your job or career, is it your wife or husband, is it your children, is it money, wealth, and power, is it what you do, is it what you have accomplished or failed to accomplish? What really defines us? We live in a world where people go after things that
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Shame says you are a mistake, not that you made a mistake, it says you are a mistake. Shame is a form of condemnation whereby a person views themselves as less than. Shame makes a person identify themselves with what the society says about them; if people say you are nothing then your identity becomes
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We are meant to be; being ourselves in the true and best version and in a God-honoring way. We have become a copying society; we copy other people’s way of talking, way of walking, way of dressing, and way of life. Most of us want to be like ‘others’; those that seem to have a
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No is a complete sentence. It does not need to be justified by explanations. It is a powerful word. It is a word that implies we know who we are, what we want, and what we do not want. It comes from a place of strength rather than weakness. It tells the other person that
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Rejection makes us feel alone; we feel like other people do not like us or do not want to be around us. It is a strong negative emotion of feeling unwanted, feeling like we are not understood, like the odd ones out, like others are better than us, like we are below others. Rejection makes
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Authenticity means being completely ourselves, in the best way possible. The world is full of distractions and if we are not careful it is easy to be led astray. All of us have values which we stand by. Yet, many times we do not follow them. We find ourselves going further and further away from
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How do we view ourselves? Esteem can range from low to high. It is affected by many things such as our upbringing, what we tell ourselves about ourselves, criticisms from other people, events that have happened in our lives and in our surroundings, what other people say about us – whether they tell it to
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Human beings are always comparing themselves to each other. This leads to a lot of competition. But what motivates us to do this? Comparison leads to dissatisfaction, which leads to unhealthy choices and lifestyle. When we do what the others are doing and fail to follow our path, we get distracted. This leads to us
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If we do not know our identity, then we will live our lives trying to please human beings. Knowing our identity means knowing our position in Christ. When we know who we are, we will not allow others to abuse, mistreat, or misuse us; we stop being people pleasers. Knowing who we are involves knowing
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